tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16525395.post7303859852743327801..comments2009-07-29T20:24:07.807+02:00Bee Eanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13860357505146690089noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16525395.post-85728970012194781682009-07-29T20:24:07.807+02:002009-07-29T20:24:07.807+02:00I gave her a ride today but I really don&#39;t know how to ask her why she doesn&#39;t drive. She is not that talkative. Anyway, her assignment will finish this week and she doesn&#39;t wish to work in Rennes anymore. Hopefully the company won&#39;t force her.Bee Eanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13860357505146690089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16525395.post-92140634412942100152009-07-23T04:46:55.760+02:002009-07-23T04:46:55.760+02:00You are a very sweet and thoughtful young woman. And your husband is, at least partly, right. So, perhaps if you and your colleagues can help her from time to time, which would be better than what is happening to her now, that would be kind of you. At the same time, perhaps you can find a way to tactfully inquire about why she doesn&#39;t drive:<br /><br />--panic attacks<br />--never learned because she lived originally in a city<br />--lost license due to drunk driving<br />--lack of confidence<br />--aversion after an accident<br />--someone telling her that she &quot;can&#39;t&quot;<br />--no time and/or money for the auto school and the license fees<br /><br />I would love to hear how it goes over the long haul. It is sad to think of someone losing so much of her life to commuting. And I thought LA was bad...La Framéricainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09879118710247405871noreply@blogger.com